Sometimes i identify so strongly as a lesbian, the thought or sight of a man can make me cringe. Other times, i find i can form deep emotional connections with men. That being said i rarely, if ever, find myself sexually attracted to a man. I always identify as a lesbian, even if i do find myself forming deep emotional connections with men. firstly i am a lesbian or so i thought,but recently i have found myself sort of attracted to a male friend. We get on really well & we flirt with each other in a friendly way. But lately im finding him on my mind more & more,he calls & txs quite often which makes it all the more harder for me. lesbian unexpectedly got attracted to a man storytime by lesbian couple carla and nic richelle we upload every monday & wednesday at 6pm central subscribe now httpswww. if youre a woman and youre attracted to men, you are not a lesbian. Its absolute madness to keep expanding definitions and trying to get every group to embrace everyone. Seriously, guys who pursue women who they know are lesbians are assholes. Its disrespectful to the individuals and to lesbians as whole as it shows that either a) you dont believe us when we say were only attracted to women and think t. Im a lesbian whos recently found herself crushing on a man. Does this mean anything? Well, ive known a couple of lesbians who found themselves getting attracted to men right around the time they were seriously considering whether or not they wanted to have children of their own. Why are men attracted to lesbians? Its assumed that most men are turned on by lesbians. Pissed off dana blackmails cory and maddy with an intimate photo of them and finds a lesbian partner to her nasty friend. im not sure how being attracted to lesbians hurting your hetero relationship. There must be some specific set of behaviors that are entailed by your attraction to lesbians that are hurting your relationship. You can certainly find lesbians attractive without doing anything about it, and you can work to contain those behaviors.